How well do the two of you actually fit?
A computed 0–100 harmony score for you and them — from just two birth dates. Four named subscores, in about 60 seconds. Computed, not guessed.
Deterministic: same two birth dates, same score — every time.
A high score is ease. A low score is a map. Neither is a verdict.
- Energy fit — how your day-to-day energies mix: what feels effortless between you, and what needs air.
- Stability — what holds in the pairing when life leans on it.
- Role dynamic — who naturally takes the lead in which domain, and whether your charts agree about it.
- Long-term alignment — whether your decade phases pull in the same direction or take turns testing you.
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- Element chemistry — do your core elements feed, mirror, or shape each other?
- Palace bonds & clashes — how your day pillars (the self/spouse palaces) interact (六合 bond, 六冲 clash).
- Mutual roles — what each of you structurally represents in the other's chart (十神).
- Number alignment — life-path families and your pair number, plus the arcana your pairing itself carries.
Every check is deterministic — the same two dates always produce the same result. Three systems, one computation: BaZi Four Pillars, Pythagorean numerology, and the Destiny Matrix.
Does a high score mean we're soulmates?
No — nothing does, and we won't pretend otherwise. A high score marks structural ease: more of your dynamic runs downhill, less work to feel understood. In our famous-couples study the marriages that lasted average 79/100 against 64 for the ones that ended — ease is real. What you build on it is yours.
Can it tell us whether we'll last?
No score can — lasting is built from choices no chart contains. What it can do is name where your pairing flows and where it grinds, so the friction stops being a mystery. A known fault line is far easier to navigate than a surprise.
Does it work for same-sex couples?
Yes. The engine reads the structure between two charts — element chemistry, pillar bonds, mutual roles, number alignment. Nothing in the math assumes anything about who you are to each other.
Do we really only need birth dates?
Yes — two dates give the full score from three-pillar charts. Adding birth times sharpens it (the hour pillar carries ambition and long-term direction), but it's optional.
Is this a tarot or astrology thing?
Neither draws nor sun signs. The score is computed deterministically from BaZi (the Chinese Four Pillars), Pythagorean numerology, and the Destiny Matrix — same two dates, same score, every time. Run it twice and check.
Two birth dates. One honest number.
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Compute our score — freeFor reflection, not prediction. Not a substitute for relationship counselling — and never a reason to end or begin one. Kismana